The sixth child born to Ariosto Xavier do Rosario
Coelho (1900-1987) and Maria Esperança Tomezinha Valdemira dos Reis Fernandes (1907-1994) at Aquem, Margão,
Goa in India Portuguêsa on September 30, 1950 was christened José
Agnelo Jeronimo Ariosto Xavier do Rosario Coelho
in accordance with family traditions. Ariosto is a brotherto Valentim, Angela
(1934-1937), Sylvia, Terezinha, Angela, Avita, Rosarito and MariaJosefa
[May 1963 ►
from L to R top row: Ariosto, Valentim, Avita, Rosarito; bottom row: Angela,
Maria Josefa, Silvia, Terezinha]. His
father claimed to be a direct descendent (17th great grand son) of Tipu Santu Naik Sardessai who, upon his conversion from Hinduism to Catholicism in
1561, took the name Sebastião Coelho.
[Please check
A Mythological Story.]
He is a grand-nephew ofFr. Ariosto Xavier Coelho
[1861-1923]
and bears his name. As Pastor [1893-1915] of Sacred
Heart Church in Tanjore or Thanjavur his granduncle helped the Salesians of Don
Bosco to establish their first orphanage in India.
He welcomed the first Salesians led by Fr. George Tamatis, SDB, to
Tanjore, India in 1906 and surrendered the Parish to Msgr. Eugene Mederlet, SDB,
in 1915 when he was appointed Vicar Forane of Nagapattinam in Tamilnadu, South
India. [Please check
Tanjore Their Final Destination.]
Ariosto was baptized (1950), confirmed (1958) and ordained a
priest
(1977) at Our Lady of Rosary Church in Navelim, Goa. He studied at
Liceu Dom Bosco in Pangim, Goa (1960-62), completed High School at Don Bosco
in Lonavla, Maharashtra (1962-66), obtained the Pre-University Degree from St.
Anthony's College in Shillong, Assam [North-Eastern India] (1967), and professed as a religious
Salesian at Yercaud, Tamilnadu [South India] in 1968. He worked as a
Salesians of Don Bosco
for twenty five years (1968-93) mostly in Western and Central India.
This map is not to scale. It is meant to
indicate some of the places
where Ariosto has lived, studied and worked in India.
Ariosto taught at Don Bosco High Schools
in Lonavla, Maharashtra (1970-72) and Matunga, Bombay (1973-74). He was a
resident youth counselor at Don Bosco Apostolic School in Lonavla, Maharashtra
(1970-72) and at Dominic Savio Boys' Home in Andheri, Bombay (1976). He
ministered to youth at Our Lady of Dolours Parish in Wadala, Bombay (1972-74 &
1975) and at Don Bosco Youth Center in Baroda, Gujarat (1977). After
completing theological studies at Kristu Jyothi College in Bangalore,
Karnataka (1974-78) Ariosto was ordained to the order of Priesthood by +Raul
Nicolau Gonsalves, Archbishop of Goa and Patriarch of the East Indies. [◄WithParents,
who are the first to kiss his newly anointed hands immediately after his
sacerdotal ordination, on December 21, 1977 at Our Lady of the Rosary Church in
Navelim, Goa.] As a newly ordained priest he was
appointed to be the Vice-Rector (1978-81) of Don Bosco Farm in Sulcorna, Quepem,
Goa. In his capacity as the Rector (1981-87) he was instrumental in harnessing
the energies of his staff and community members and in transforming the
Don Bosco Farm
into an Agro-Educational Complex for the poor and the marginalized,
especially children and teenagers.
▲ October,
1986.
With the children, students, apprentices, farm hands, interns,
counselors, teachers, supervisors, managers and leaders in Sulcorna, Goa,
India, where as the Rector from 1981 to 1987 Fr. Ariosto Coelho, SDB,
[11th in the first row of adults sitting]
was instrumental in transforming
Don Bosco Farm
into an Agro-Educational Complex for the marginalized young and the
poor:
a high school K-12; residential facilities for teens; a rural health clinic; a rural development center;
agricultural and animal
farms;
a farmers' rehabilitation society.
He represented the Pia Sociedade Salesiana de
São João Bosco in Goa (1980-88) in Civil and Criminal Courts starting at the
Supreme Court of India in New Delhi. As a member of the Archdiocesan Pastoral
Council of Goa (1982-84) he espoused the cause and causes of the religious men
and women. As the founding Vice-President of the Trust for the Education
of the Socially and Economically Disadvantaged he collaborated with a dedicated
group of men and women at Jesuit House in Margao, Goa to sponsor activities that
would address the needs of the marginalized children in Goa. A Trustee of the
Bombay Salesian Society and a
Councilor to the
Salesian Provincialof
Bombay (1982-88) Ariosto held a number of responsibilities in the governance and
development of the Salesian Institutions in Western and Central India,
particularly in the Goa and Gujarat regions.
▲July,
1985. With the Leadership of the
Salesians of Don Bosco
in
India who number over 2000 male religious, as many female religious
and many more cooperators. Fr. Ariosto Coelho, SDB, [top row 12th] participates in the First
Asian Salesian Spirituality Seminar held at
The National Biblical Catechetical
and Liturgical Center in Bangalore, India.
In recognition of his intellectual capabilities and
outstanding services among the
Salesians of Don Bosco
in
India, Ariosto was sent to the Vatican for higher studies in Salesian
Spirituality. He lived at
Communità Don Rua at Piazza dell'Ateneo Salesiano andstudied
at Università Pontificia Salesiana
in Rome, Italy (1987-89) and wrote his Tesina [dissertation] to obtain
the Licenza in Teologia Spirituale on "The
Personal Vocation of Don Bosco
as reflected in the Memorie
dell’Oratorio di San Francesco Di Sales dal 1815 al 1855:
A Contribution to Vocation Spirituality (1989)". [►Conversing,
praying and
exchanging gifts withPope John Paul II on
June 20, 1989 at the Vatican] During the
Summer of 1988 he was awarded a scholarship to study French at Université
Lumiere in Lyons, France. He ministered to the parishioners of St. Mary of
the Lake RC Church while obtaining a Masters Degree in Pastoral Studies at
Loyola University of Chicago, Chicago, Illinois (1988-90). While studying at the
Institute of Catholic Educational Leadership at the University of San Francisco
(1989-90) and while working on his
Doctorate in Philosophy and Religion at the
California Institute of Integral Studies (1990-93) he ministered to the
Roman Catholic flocks at St. Francis of Assisi Parish in North Beach (1989-92)
and at St. Paul's Parish in Noe Valley (1992-93), both in the Archdiocese of San
Francisco.
In
a letter to Pope John Paul II dated February 4, 1994 Ariosto offered his
resignation from celibate ministry within the Roman Catholic Church, the
Salesians of Don Bosco and the Archdiocese of San Francisco because he
decided to marry
Vivian Marrone. [◄ Ariosto holds his wedding rings as he prays
withMother Teresa on January 3, 1994 in Calcutta, India.]
[►Lighting the Nuptial Candle withVivian Marrone on March 22, 1994 in San
Francisco, CA.] He continues an ecumenical ministry
as an independent Catholic Priest
as well as an Interfaith
Spiritual Director, Family Psychotherapist and
Clinical Art Therapist
in the San Francisco Bay Area in California. He enjoys doing home gardening,
cooking Indian food, reading non-fiction literature, writing poetry and
inspirational literature, drawing and painting the light, and traveling both
locally and globally. If interested in Ariosto's
creative work, please contact
AriostoCoelho@Yahoo.com
and enjoy the dance of light and delight in
consonance with the Rhythms of the Breath and the Universe.
(Center
with love let us glow
No Self
INTEGRITY)
Xānti
Emptied, glowing with radiance
PLAYFUL
(Delight
may joy overflow
Embrace All
IN-HARMONY) Moima
BLOW, BLOW, BLOW TILL I BE
BUT A BREATH OF THE SPIRIT BLOWING IN ME
BLISSFUL LAUGHTER
wITH YOU A DISCIPLE, FOR YOU A PRIEST,
A clinical ARTIST AND A FAMILY THERAPIST
WHO
AGREES WITH
▪ Mahatma
Gandhi (1869-1948)that "we must be the change we want to see
in the world."
▪ Albert
Einstein (1879-1955) that "there are only two ways to live your life:
one is as if everything is a miracle, the other is as though nothing is a
miracle."
▪ the Jewish
psalmist and the Christian
mystic
"Be still
and know that I am God"
▪ theVedic
seer
"Thou art that!"
▪ [Awakening]
WHO CHOOSES
▪ to laugh and cry along the way with
Vivian Marrone
Coelho;
▪ to dance
in the footsteps of
Jesus of Nazareth
both within and beyond the realm of organized religions;
▪ to believe with Muhammad, The Prophet,(c.
570–632)
that
"There is no compulsion in religion. Truth stands out clearly from falsehood."
(Qur'an 2:256)
▪ to acceptwith
Lao Tzu (c. 570-490 BCE) that "The Tao that can be
told is not the Great Integrity. The Tao that can be named is not the universal
name."(Tao Te Ching 1:1)
▪ [Balancing]
WHO
STRIVES TO BE
▪ compassionate
with a warm
heart, a bright head, ready hands and feet that walk
on the waters (Gospel of Matthew 16/25 & 25/40) in love with the little,
the lowly, the lonely or the lost and their leaders (Sānt
Kabīr c1398-1458,Blessed Joseph Vaz of Goa
1651-1711, Rabindranath Tagore 1861-1941 & Blessed Teresa of Calcutta 1910-'97).
▪ and enlightened:
"How wonderful! All things are perfect exactly as they are!"
(Gautama Buddha c. 556-486 BCE)
▪ [Centering]
WHO
IS COMMITTED TO
▪
Awaken ▪Balance
▪
Center
▪Delight in
▪
the best within("Give me souls and take away the rest."
St. John Bosco
1815-'88; St. Francis de Sales 1567-1662; St. Francis Xavier 1506-1552 and St.
Francis of Assisi 1181-1262)where the soul glows and grows
peacefully with playfulness.
▪ [Delight]
WHO
WALKS ALONG
the
Path of Re-cognition("pratyābhijna"
according to Abinavgupta & Ksemaraja in the 9th & 10th centuries) by
unfolding and enfolding (Sri Aurobindo 1872-1950 & Teilhard de Chardin
1881-1955)
▪
Infinity
intimacy
integrity
In-harmony ▪
gracefully with gratitude.
▪ [Fullness or Emptiness :
Awakening]
Awakening,
Balancing
and
Centering Delight
in the Luminous Urge Within Oneself to Fulfill
One’s Role in the Cosmic Drama
to the Best of One’s Ability and with Supreme Dedication
to the Divine Plan
experienced with 42 years of spiritual, pastoral and educational
counseling to individuals, couples, families, groups and communities in India,
Italy and the U.S.A.
volunteered over 30,000 hours for youth work, social work and
community leadership in India from 1967 to1987 as a professed religious
Salesian of Don Bosco.
authoredMandalas, Personal Mythology and Mid-Life
Spirituality: A Trans-Epistemological
Inquiry into Mid-Life Transformation Blending Integral Art, Roman Catholic
Tradition and Pūrņa Yoga
. (1994) Goa: Moima Publications.
registered [1997] &
licensed [MFC 43885] Family Therapist by the Board of Behavioral Sciences,
CA
Applying creative and traditional processes including Sacred Rituals, Art
from the Heart, Spiritual Dreamwork, Intensive Journal Writing, Neuro-Linguistics,
Psycho-Neuro-Immunology, Integral Yoga, Ignatian Discernment of Spirits and
the Salesian System of Education based on reason, religion and loving
kindness, ... @ various locations in India, Italy and the USA.
1967-'94;
Conducting Interfaith ceremonies, Ecumenical liturgies and Catholic
sacraments including those from the 1928 Book of Common Prayer, ... @
white robed monks, St. John' s Church
& other locations in CA. 1994-2007.
Functioning as a Procedural Writer [Training Manuals & Disaster
Preparedness Procedures] and an Airport Emergency Chaplain @ San Francisco
International Airport, San Francisco, CA. 1995-2001.
Co-leading Multi-Family and Parent Education Groups, Juvenile Sex Offender
Programs, ... @ North Peninsula Family Alternatives. South San Francisco,
CA. 1996-'97;
Offering Clinical Pastoral Education,
Interfaith Spiritual Direction,
Grief Counseling, ... @ Stanford University Hospital. Stanford, CA.
1997-'98;
Leading Anger Management Groups, Brief Couple's Therapy, Co-Parent
Counseling, Child Abuse Treatment, ... @ Family Service Agency of San
Mateo County. Burlingame, CA. 1998-2000.
Training volunteers in Leadership with the Elderly, Care of the Soul and
Elder Friendship, ... @ Convalescent Hospital Ministry of Santa Clara
Valley, Campbell, CA. 2000-'03.
Integrating Health and Spirituality, Cultural Competency and Mental
Health, Brief Psychotherapy, Dual Diagnoses, Co-Occurring Disorders,
Integrated Treatment and Recovery/Resiliency Initiative as a Change Agent,
Children and Trauma, ...
@ San Mateo County Behavioral Health and Recovery Services, CA. 2000-'09.
PARTICIPATED IN
First Asian Salesian Spirituality Seminar at The National Biblical
Catechetical and Liturgical Center. Bangalore, India. July 1985
Congresso Mondiale degli Studii su Don Bosco at
Pontificia Studiorum Universitas Salesiana.
Rome, Italy. January 1988
World Parliament of Religions atPalmer House Hotel. Chicago IL.
August-September 1993
Research Conference Integrating Spirituality and Health into Service Delivery
at the National Institute of Health. Bethesda, MD. April 2003
Gomant Vishwa Sammelan at Campal Convention Center, Panaji, India.
January 2004.
2008: World Congress on Psychology and Spirituality:
Furthering Their Integration at India Habitat Center. Delhi, India. January
2008
First-Ever California Change Agent
"Un-Convention": Changing the World ... Conducted by Zia Partners, Inc.,
Burlingame, California. April 24-25, 2008.
XVI Annual Cultural Competence
Summit, California - Mental Health; Burlingame, California. November
17-18, 2009.
nominated for
1986 National Child Worker Award by the Government of Goa, India.
awarded in 1987 the
Outstanding Young Person Award by the Jaycees
of Goa, India "for distinguished services rendered to the nation" by
transforming the
Don Bosco Farm
into an Agro-Educational Complex for the poor and the marginalized,
especially children and teenagers in remote Sulcorna in the Quepem Taluka.
On
December 21, 2002
Fr. Ariosto Coelho completed 25 years of ordination to the Catholic
Priesthood. Throughout these twenty-five years he has been a disciple of
Christ
and God’s instrument of love
for the little, the lowly, the lonely or the lost and their leaders among:
El Buen Pastor Catholic Church, San Mateo, CA
[2000- ]
Celebrating the
Silver Jubilee of Ordination to Catholic Priesthood and installation as Rector
of
St. John's Parish
Church in Hayward, CA on
Dec. 21, 2002 ▲[LEFT] With the White Robed Monks of St.
Benedict and others (from L to R: Rev. V. Jackson,
Fr. G. Caprio,
Bishop J. Rose, Abbot/Bishop R. Dittler, OSB, Fr. R. Frances, and Br. M.
Savio);
▲[RIGHT] With the Marstons
and other friends .
The Community of Spiritual Direction both within and beyond
religion
San Francisco International Airport Operations, CA (1995-1997)
North Peninsula Family Alternatives, South San Francisco CA(1996-1997)
Stanford University Hospital Chaplaincy Services, Stanford CA (1997-98)
Family Service Agency of San Mateo County, Burlingame CA (1998-2000)
Convalescent Hospital Ministry of Santa Clara Valley, Campbell CA (2000-03)
South Central Youth Team of SMC Behavioral Health and Recovery Services, Redwood City (2000- ).
Celebrating the Wedding of Michael
Basus and Maria Ramos ▲